leo pro/con.

LEO CHILD PRO

Leo children are responsible from a young age, you can count on them to be young adults and in control of their morals and values early. They’re very respectable children and know about hierarchal structures in a house hold from early and usually abide by them. These kids are usually bubbly and enjoy meeting people, even if they are introverts. Being around people makes them happy. They’re usually respected by most of their friends and people they meet and rarely disrespect others. They’re more quiet indoors and don’t cause trouble for parents in terms of loud, disruptive behaviour. They love laughing and making people laugh, they have high ambitions and always want to share their successes with others. They love compliments and rewards, with these things they overachieve. These children love intellectual conversations especially of things they’re interested in. They enjoy adventure, outdoors and sports, anything that allows them to release their inner fire and will always accompany you on all your journeys (only if they’re fun).

LEO CHILD CON

Leo children can be extremely high maintenance in many ways. They can expect a lot of attention through compliments, conversation being about them, receiving gifts and when they don’t, they can be moody and sulk/give silent treatment to adults and likely lash out to children of the same age. They can be stingy and unwilling to share with other kids unless it is sharing because they want to show off what they have and want others to see it. Showing off is something they do often and can rub people the wrong way because they constantly want to flaunt what they have, disregarding how it may make others feel. It is common in Leo kids to not be as developed emotionally and can lack empathy and at that age their main concern is themselves unless they have an empathetic moon. Being told what to do is something they dislike and they can be hard headed and try to battle authority, if not treated like an equal, they can dislike home and try to dominate or look for respect elsewhere out of the home. It is important that they are taught to value friendships but know the difference between loyalty and complete stupidity. Their nativity can put them in danger of being in the wrong crowds, being loyal to the wrong people and being walked over by fake friends. 

LEO PARENT PRO

Leo parents can be fun loving and comedic. They love laughing and make others laugh, they are usually pretty popular parents and can have the house filled and booming with friends and family or can have you going out to lots of events and functions. Their love of outdoors and adventure allows them to always have activities or just days out planned, they’re not a parent who stays at home and they love going out with their children and showing them off, so boring is not associated with this parent. They are extremely hardworking and loyal when it comes to looking after family, they will ensure any hardship doesn’t hold them back and will try to be that strong lion to look after their pride. Giving is something they don’t hold back from either, even when they do not have the funds, they will try to make the funds to give you what you have asked for. They have a tendency of spoiling their loved ones especially family, because you represent them, they don’t want you ever going without or people talking about their child being the one who doesn’t have something. Their pride wouldn’t accept that. They like feeling needed and helpful, so they will do what they can to constantly help and feel useful. They are good listeners and advice givers especially when it comes to social aspects of life as they have usually had a life filled with friends, failures of friendships, betrayal etc. So they have a lot of wisdom to share and will always be willing to listen to your situations.

LEO PARENT CON

Their pride can get in the way of a relationship with their kids. Underdeveloped Leo’s can be stubborn and unwilling to take accountability and accept fault, it makes them feel weak and many times they lack the understanding of how their actions may emotionally affect others around them. They can just live their life seeing their behaviour as not ok but you must deal with it because that’s just the way they are and you should know how to deal with it by now. Which is super unhealthy and dismissive. Leo parents can be unwilling to listen to anything that they feel they don’t understand or they feel is against them, it can make conversations with them very limited and boring for some signs as there will be a blatant lack of interest from them and no attempt at even trying to learn what they don’t understand. It can also make conversations with them self centred as they can sometimes give advice that is focused around them and eventually divert the conversation into being about them. Leo parents can lack affection if they do not have an Earth/water heavy chart, they can shy away from physical and even verbal displays of love and comfort as it makes them uncomfortable and shy, only showing it in rare situations which can create a family dynamic where people struggle to show and communicate love to each other. They can be immature and not give people the respect of an opinion. They hate being told no or someone having a differing opinion to them, it can be heavily judgemental and their reactions can be childish to matters of conflicts. Things like silent treatments are common as they can avoid conflicts at times. 

LEO FRIEND PRO

You don’t have to worry about getting bored, because they are fun to be around and usually the life of the party. They are always speaking, meeting new people, introducing friends to each other, going out to events, being energetic and loud, there’s no time to be sad or bored when you are around them. They can be very generous if they care about you, especially financially. They will always will help where they can and where they can’t, they’ll ensure to find ways in which they can be proactive and helpful. They hate seeing a loved one struggle so ignoring and not doing anything genuinely bothers them, even if they know you are taking advantage they will complain but still help because saying no and taking a step back just isn’t in their nature. Leo’s are reliable and loyal, as friends they will ensure they are always there when necessary and needed even if you do not ask. They are the types of people who will also never miss an event or something important to you because they value and respect you and also appreciate the fact you love them enough to have invited them. With loyalty, they will ride and defend you whenever the situation allows them too, for the confrontational Leo’s it can even mean physically fighting for you. They dislike anyone who is part of their pride being disrespected, it hurts them even more than disrespect towards them, especially if you are someone who can not defend yourself. They will ensure they are your mouth and wings in those situations. 

LEO FRIEND CON

As generous as they can be, they can also be very selfish. Due to being ruled by the sun, they are sometimes selfish and self centred. They can disregard your feelings, put themselves first, talk about themselves all the time and refuse to take accountability. Leo friends are not known for being good listeners, when you think about who you go to to vent, unless your only friend is a Leo, it is unlikely that you think of going to your Leo friend and that’s due to the fact their attention span is limited because the conversation is not about them and they lose interest and their advice can be surface level and half hearted with no true substance to it. The confusion is whether it is due to the fact they just don’t care about anything that has nothing to do with them or they are just not emotionally intellectual enough to give you advice according to your situation because Leo’s are known to lack empathy and speak based on experience. So unless they’ve experienced what you’re going through, you’re likely to get shit advice. Leo’s are stubborn and this behaviour can branch into many unhealthy traits. It can result in them not apologising and not admitting wrongs or faults because they just want to be stubborn about the situation. It can also result in them giving silent treatments because of an issue they have with you and being unwilling to talk about it and sort out the situation even if you were to confront it, if they aren’t ready to talk to you, you will not speak about anything. Another issue is they can be fake and people pleasers, they can have an issue with you but behave as though they like you and have never spoken a bad word about you but as soon as your back is turned, they are super bitchy. They would rather bitch than confront issues head on. 

LEO RELATIONSHIP PRO

In a relationship, Leo’s are very generous. They do the most, whether financially capable or incapable they will do what they can to ensure their partner is happy and they’re being the most helpful partner they can be. They will cook, clean, buy you things, take you places etc all because they feel as though it is their responsibility to take care of you. Leo’s make you laugh in relationships, you can be very comfortable around them and you can be yourself because they are silly and don’t take themselves too seriously and allow you to do the same. They see their partners as their prized possessions and want to flaunt you whenever they can, so they will ensure to introduce you to friends and take you out to places with them, or publicise the relationship on social media platforms because they are proud of the fact you are theirs and they want people to see what they managed to have. It is also a possessive and obsessive thing as they want people to know that you are theirs and taken by them, they’re just obsessed with everything about you. They’re forgiving in relationships, as stubborn as they can be, they are not as stubborn romantically, they are committed being fixed signs, they would rather make it work than just throw it all away, so they find themselves eventually allowing a lot of things and going back to their partner. Their generosity goes all the way to the bedroom, they also want to please you sexually and ensure they are giving more than they are receiving. These will rather do more doing than taking in bed and can find themselves being pleased just from pleasing you. They have a high libido and always want to have sex. 

LEO RELATIONSHIP CON

Leo relationships can sometimes become too fiery and passionate in the argumentative sense. These relationships can get heated and it can be through small minor complaints or issues turned bigger and into an unnecessary disagreement/argument or it can be them taking their issues out on you and you having to deal with their bad moods. This can get long and tiresome for some and they may want an escape from feeling too suffocated by multiple complaints and disagreements. Another issue is that being ruled by the sun, they can be super passionate initially and do everything at once, it can leave them burned out later in the relationship and remove all passion from it. Causing them to be comfortable and not make as much effort anymore to bring passion and causing their partners to feel bored or feel as though relationship with their Leo partner is not what they expected it to be like. Leo partners can be emotionally manipulative in relationships. If they are afraid they are going to lose you, then they start speaking about how it would affect them to lose you and how much you mean to them, kind of guilt tripping you into staying rather than asking for ways to improve the relationship or giving you the space you need to take time to think. That links to Leo’s clinginess. They want to spend a lot of time with you and speak to you constantly, so they may not respect their partners space or understand the fact they need space space. It can result in them taking offence to their partner needing alone time when it is normal for people to want to be alone from time to time, even people in relationships. Leo’s don’t know how to be single, so in a situation where you’re on a “break” with your Leo partner or you’re in a bad place with them, they can assume it’s over and literally try seek comfort and admiration elsewhere, which can be unforgivable to some signs. They can also do it out of spite which is childish in itself. Leo’s lie!!!! They may hide things (which is also lying by the way) because they don’t want to get into trouble, be judged or be held accountable, so they just withhold information. 

LEO COMPATIBILITY

  • Capricorn – Always attracted to each other, but clash a lot. – 3/10
  • Aquarius – Make great friendships instead of relationships but stubborn mix – 6/10
  • Pisces – Not a common match, they’re not patient enough for each other’s emotions – 4/10
  • Aries – A lot in common and a strong connection but a fiery match – 7/10
  • Taurus – Both committed, opposites attract but their opposing values is the cause for their demise – 5/10
  • Gemini – Common match, heavy attraction and spark but Leo can’t keep up – 7/10
  • Cancer – Make better friends, Leo not emotionally equipped for Cancer, can get unhealthy quick – 4/10
  • Leo – Understand each other, have the same values and are both stable – 9/10
  • Virgo – Another strong and common attachment but Leo too naive for Virgo – 5/10
  • Libra – Perfect balance although not common, perfect give and take dynamic, they’re what each other need – 7/10
  • Scorpio – Clash of interest, Light vs Dark, unhealthy but very common and intense passionate relationship – 2/10
  • Sagittarius – Common match, they both understand each other and patient enough for each other, share same values – 8/10

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